Synergy

Lately I have been focussing on creating synergistic relationships with professionals of the same mind. To me this creates an energy that is more powerful than the work of either professional alone. What I need to be careful about is "forcing" a relationship into being. I have such a strong will and drive that it is easier for me to push through than to stop and let things develop naturally. The result is usually not optimal when I do this. Fear, obligation, guilt ... these are the factors that lead to pushing instead of allowing ... what is your experience with synergy?